My First Time: “Damn, I should have undressed.”

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/first-time-3

Stanley v. Georgia

http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/conlaw/stanley.html

Miller v. California

http://law2.umkc.edu/faculty/projects/ftrials/conlaw/miller.html

Peter Wyden, 74, Journalist And Father of Oregon Senator

http://www.nytimes.com/1998/06/29/nyregion/peter-wyden-74-journalist-and-father-of-oregon-senator.html

Robert H. Rimmer, 84, Author of 'The Harrad Experiment'

http://www.nytimes.com/2001/08/11/arts/robert-h-rimmer-84-author-of-the-harrad-experiment.html

Threesomes, foursomes and moresomes within a marriage

http://www.examiner.com/article/threesomes-foursomes-and-moresomes-within-a-marriage

I fantasise about my girlfriend having group sex. What does it mean?

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2013/nov/11/fantasise-about-my-girlfriend-having-group-sex

The 1 Marriage 'Killer' You Really Shouldn't Worry About

http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/180918/The_1_Marriage_Killer_You?email_id=1005978919&utm_medium=cmi&utm_source=cafemom&utm_campaign=General&utm_content=stir_newsletter&utm_nooverride=1

10 Things Happy Couples Never Do in Their Relationships

http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/180714/10_Things_Happy_Couples_Never?email_id=1005978919&utm_medium=cmi&utm_source=cafemom&utm_campaign=General&utm_content=stir_newsletter&utm_nooverride=1

Everyone I’ve Ever Had Sex With: Male, 54, Ohio

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/everyone-ive-ever-sex-male-54-ohio

Triads force women into sex slavery: DOJ

http://www.londonderrysentinel.co.uk/news/local-news/triads-force-women-into-sex-slavery-doj-1-3727874

Ins and Outs of the Hong Kong Sex Industry

http://www.necescity.com/sex-and-dating/item/1496-ins-and-outs-of-the-hong-kong-sex-industry/1496-ins-and-outs-of-the-hong-kong-sex-industry.html

Everyone Is Watching Family-Themed Porn This Holiday Season

http://jezebel.com/everyone-is-watching-family-themed-porn-this-holiday-se-1674855599

Holiday Kink: Full story 'It's A Secret, Santa'

.tinynibbles.com/blogarchives/2014/12/holiday-kink-full-story-its-a-secret-santa.html

Lost and Found: My Life in a Group Marriage Commune

http://www.icsahome.com/articles/book-review-lost-and-found-my-life-in-a-group-marriage-commune

The Monogamish Marriage: What If It's Not Cheating to Cheat?

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/shameless-woman/201107/the-monogamish-marriage-what-if-its-not-cheating-cheat

Group Marriage and the Future of the Family

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/love-without-limits/201203/group-marriage-and-the-future-the-family

Scenes from a group marriage

http://www.salon.com/2008/06/04/open_marriage/

Get Ready for Group Marriage

http://www.firstthings.com/blogs/firstthoughts/2011/11/get-ready-for-group-marriage

A Beginner’s Guide to the Modern Orgy

http://www.maxim.com/art-seduction/beginners-guide-modern-orgies

Interview with a Woman Who Recently Discovered She Loves Group Sex

http://thehairpin.com/2014/04/get-it

Can A Marriage Withstand Group Sex?

http://www.mentalhelp.net/poc/view_doc.php?type=advice&id=542&at=1&cn=10

“69 Positions” : le sexe, le corps, et la nudité sont politiques

http://www.lesinrocks.com/2014/12/19/arts-scenes/scenes/69-positions-le-sexe-le-corps-et-la-nudite-sont-politiques-11542261/

A Deeply Honest Conversation with a Veteran Swinger

http://www.nerve.com/interviews/deeply-honest-conversation-veteran-swinger

Social Origins of Swinging

http://www.geocities.ws/cilcc/origins.html

10 Things You Should Never Do in a Married Relationship

http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/180653/10_Things_You_Should_Never?email_id=1004850604&utm_medium=cmi&utm_source=cafemom&utm_campaign=General&utm_content=stir

10 Moms Confess Their Secret Sexual Fantasy

http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/180605/10_Moms_Confess_Their_Secret?email_id=1004850604&utm_medium=cmi&utm_source=cafemom&utm_campaign=General&utm_content=stir_newsletter&utm_nooverride=1

Belief And The Atomism Of Social Change

http://dish.andrewsullivan.com/2014/12/19/belief-and-the-atomism-of-social-change/

Meet the Party Host Who Is Bringing Sex Back to Fifth Avenue

http://www.nerve.com/interviews/kayvon-sex-fifth-avenue

Watch One Woman’s Struggle Against the Tyranny of Pubes

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/watch-one-womans-struggle-against-the-tyranny-of-pubes

Yes, You Can Haqve My Wife

http://ideasevolved.com/yes-you-can-have-my-wife/

Glossary of Swinging Terms

http://www.lsota.com/Terms.htm

Origins of Swinging

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Polyamory: The Next Sexual Revolution?

http://www.newsweek.com/polyamory-next-sexual-revolution-82053

Everyone I’ve Ever Had Sex With: Female, 23, Boston

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/everyone-ive-ever-sex-female-23-boston

Guy Best Friends See Each Other Naked For The First Time

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/12/15/guy-best-friends-naked_n_6328568.html

My First Time: “He got in the mosh pit.”

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/first-time

Meet the Couple Who Has Photographed over 140 People Having Sex

http://www.nerve.com/interviews/meet-couple-photographed-140-people-sex

Sex Advice From Cougars

http://www.nerve.com/advice/sex-advice-from/sex-advice-from-cougars

Masturbation: the secret to a long life?

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/may/05/masturbation-secret-to-a-long-life-betty-dodson-self-love

Why dyed armpit hair will be 2015's most subversive trend

http://www.theguardian.com/fashion/fashion-blog/2014/dec/15/why-dyed-armpit-hair-is-2015s-most-subversive-trend-taylor-swift?CMP=fb_gu

Talking Strategy with a Craigslist Voyeur-for-Hire

http://www.nerve.com/interviews/talking-craigslist-voyeur-hire

Are Polite People More Violent and Destructive?

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-green-mind/201406/are-polite-people-more-violent-and-destructive

People Feel Better About Pornography When It's Educational

http://www.theatlantic.com/technology/archive/2014/12/people-feel-better-about-pornography-when-its-educational/383643/

4 holiday gifts for the sex nerd in your life

http://www.thedirtynormal.com/blog/2014/12/13/4-holiday-gifts-for-the-sex-nerd-in-your-life/

Woman seeking man with GSOH for better sex

http://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/dec/12/woman-man-gsoh-better-sex?CMP=fb_gu

Bag It Up, Grandpa

http://www.vice.com/read/bag-it-up-grandpa

I caught my husband watching pornography – I’m shocked

http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2014/dec/12/caught-husband-watching-pornography-shocked?CMP=fb_gu

Altoona City Council rejects strip club proposal

http://www.leadertelegram.com/news/front_page/article_8fc51e06-81bf-11e4-8f3e-578f8d05a8cf.html

AΓΓΙΓΜΑ-TOUCHING COUPLES: OUR LATEST BLOG

http://touchingcouples.blogspot.gr

Masters of Alt Sex: SuicideGirls Hits Puberty and Wants to Invade Your TV Set

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2014/12/09/masters-of-alt-sex-suicidegirls-hits-puberty-and-wants-to-invade-your-tv-set.html

Porn protest: Mass 'facesitting' and sex simulation to take place outside Parliament

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/womens-politics/11284843/Porn-protest-Mass-sex-simulation-and-facesitting-to-take-place-outside-Parliament.html

Everyone I’ve Ever Had Sex With: Male, 42, New York

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/everyone-ive-ever-sex-male-42new-york

12 X-Rated Pornaments to Spice Up Your Christmas Tree

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/12-x-rated-ornaments-to-spice-up-your-christmas-tree-0

Storytime with… Sex Coach Eric Amaranth

http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/storytime-with-sex-coach-eric-amaranth

True Stories: Stranger than Friction

http://www.nerve.com/true-stories/true-stories-stranger-friction

My bad sex wasn't rape

http://www.salon.com/2013/03/22/my_bad_sex_wasnt_rape/

Why do so many straight women prefer penetration to oral sex?

http://www.salon.com/2014/08/01/why_do_so_many_straight_women_prefer_penetration_to_oral_sex/

Death by cunnilingus

http://www.salon.com/2013/01/30/death_by_cunnilingus/

Thought while giving head

http://www.salon.com/2002/02/25/minot_2/

Want to watch a lot of porn AND have good sex?

http://sexualintelligence.wordpress.com/2014/11/11/want-to-watch-a-lot-of-porn-and-have-good-sex/?utm_source=SI+%23178--December+2014&utm_campaign=%23178+December+2014&utm_medium=email

The Sexism Behind the Anti-Escort Movement

http://sexualintelligence.wordpress.com/2014/11/26/the-sexism-behind-the-anti-escort-movement/?utm_source=SI+%23178--December+2014&utm_campaign=%23178+December+2014&utm_medium=email

Giving Thanks for Sex; However…

http://sexualintelligence.wordpress.com/2014/11/29/giving-thanks-for-sex-however/?utm_source=SI+%23178--December+2014&utm_campaign=%23178+December+2014&utm_medium=email

Why I Hate Monogamy

http://open.salon.com/blog/sirenitalake/2009/06/05/why_i_hate_monogamy

Group sex getting into full “swing”

http://www.radio.cz/en/section/czech-life/group-sex-getting-into-full-swing

Threesomes Blow

https://www.vice.com/read/threesomes-v10n11

3 Tips for Having an MFM Threesome

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10 Things Men Want You to Do in Bed -- But Are Afraid to Ask For (PHOTOS)​

http://thestir.cafemom.com/love_sex/180275/10_Things_Men_Want_You?email_id=1001654784&utm_medium=cmi&utm_source=cafemom&utm_campaign=General&utm_content=stir_n

Women Who Rejected The Swinging Idea At First And Then Very Much Liked It

http://www.libchrist.com/swing/womenlike.html

Study: Anal Sex Has Never Been More Popular

http://gawker.com/5656285/study-anal-sex-has-never-been-more-popular

Shocking News About Anal Sex

http://www.womenshealthmag.com/sex-and-relationships/anal-sex

The price of free love

http://www.theguardian.com/theguardian/1999/oct/08/features11.g21

Dear Coquette: An Open Marriage Full of Lies

http://www.nerve.com/advice/dear-coquette-an-open-marriage-full-of-lies

Navigating a Sea of Sex Toys: A Cordial Introduction

http://kinseyconfidential.org/navigating-sea-sex-toys-cordial-introduction/

Here Are the Real and Ridiculous Reviews for Vaginal Shrinking Cream

http://jezebel.com/here-are-the-real-and-ridiculous-reviews-for-vaginal-sh-1644517217?utm_campaign=socialflow_jezebel_facebook&utm_source=jezebel_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

If Unicorns Exist, Why Can’t We Catch One?

http://blackandpoly.org/2014/08/21/if-unicorns-exist-why-cant-we-catch-one/

What your doctor wishes you would ask about sex

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2014/08/24/what-your-doctor-wishes-you-would-ask-about-sex/14517415/

New Study Claims People Who've Had More Sexual Partners Report Unhappier Marriages

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html?ir=Divorce

Let's Clear Up Some Lies You've Been Told About Vaginas

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jenny-block/lets-clear-up-some-lies-youve-been-told-about-vaginas_b_5692556.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063

Parents Turn Sexting Teen Daughter In To Police

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/23/aaron-knodel-teacher-sex_n_5702512.html

Study: Lesbians have the most orgasms

http://www.salon.com/2014/08/19/study_lesbians_have_the_most_orgasms/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

That awkward conversation about my stripping

http://www.salon.com/2014/03/04/that_awkward_conversation_about_my_stripping/?utm_source=face

Ελληνική Ομάδα BDSM

https://www.facebook.com/EOBDSM?notif_t=fbpage_fan_invite

Open City

http://www.nerve.com/true-stories/open-city

This 100-Year-Old Sex Therapist Is Just as Wise, Awesome as You'd Hope

http://jezebel.com/this-100-year-old-sex-therapist-is-just-as-wise-awesom-1624603603?utm_campaign=socialflow_jezebel_facebook&utm_source=jezebel_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

Wendy Davis wants to end statute of limitations on sexual assault and rape

http://www.salon.com/2014/08/21/wendy_davis_wants_to_end_statute_of_limitations_on_sexual_assault_and_rape/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

5 rules for having a hot sex life after the honeymoon's over

http://nypost.com/2014/08/21/5-rules-for-having-a-hot-sex-life-after-the-honeymoons-over/?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=NYPFacebook&utm_medium=SocialFlow

10 Mesmerizing Facts About Sexual Attraction

http://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2014/8/7/10-mesmerizing-facts-about-sexual-attraction

Same-Sex Marriages Have Been Blocked in Virginia

http://jezebel.com/same-sex-marriages-have-been-blocked-in-virginia-1624706249?utm_campaign=socialflow_jezebel_facebook&utm_source=jezebel_facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

Does love makes sex better? How women believe 'enhanced physical pleasure' comes from an intense emotional connection

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2730203/Love-makes-sex-better-women.html?ito=social-facebook

I Was a Teenage Prostitute

http://www.nerve.com/true-stories/i-was-a-teenage-prostitute

Cheating Women Are Looking For Sex, Not Divorce, Study Says

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/19/cheating-women-sex_n_5691166.html?ncid=fcbklnkushpmg00000063

Study: Lesbians have the most orgasms

http://www.salon.com/2014/08/19/study_lesbians_have_the_most_orgasms/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=socialflow

Happy K-Day! Celebrating 61 Years Of Female Sex Research

http://www.lehmiller.com/blog/2014/8/7/happy-k-day-celebrating-61-years-of-female-sex-research

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SEXUAL INTELLIGENCE 167

Issue #167--January 2014

Email Dr. Klein Subscribe to Newsletter Click Here to see all previous issues of Sexual Intelligence™. FEATURED BOOK Sexual Intelligence With engaging stories from his private practice, Marty shows how our ideas about sex - and ourselves - are more important than a perfect body or exotic techniques.  Sexual Intelligence  offers a robust perspective that makes it impossible for people to fail at sex, because they don't aim for success. "Read this book if you want to improve your sex life."   ~ Psychology Today Learn More - Buy Book Buy Kindle Version ABOUT US Each month, Sexual Intelligence™  examines the sexual implications of current events, politics, technology, popular culture, and the media. Dr. Marty Klein is a Certified Sex Therapist and sociologist with a special interest in public policy and sexuality. He has written 6 books, over 100 print articles, and has published 7 sets of training CDs. Each year he trains thousands of professionals in North America and abroad in clinical skills, human sexuality, and policy issues.

The Year In Sex--Continuing in 2014  Many of the most important sex-related stories of 2013 will continue into this year. So it's doubly important that we remember what happened-because in many ways they're still happening....  Read more Holiday Gifts for Imperfect Sex Lives  Right about now, almost everybody's shopping, hoping to buy that perfect something. There's no shortage of sex gifts, especially for those who...  Read more British Re-Invent The Wheel--and Fail  To our British cousins: You needn't have bothered. When your Prime Minister David Cameron announced his intention to "protect young people" by requiring...  Read more Resumes January 7! Bay Area Therapists: Case Consultation Group Resumes We meet one Tuesday morning per month in Palo Alto, analyzing and discussing cases. We focus on sexuality, and clinical issues such as power dynamics, conflict management, existential concerns, and countertransference. Cost is $50 per session, minimum commitment of 4 sessions.  Information: 650/856-6533 or Dr_Marty_Klein@yahoo.com  CALENDAR DR. MARTY KLEIN'S SCHEDULE February 3, 2014 San Jose, CA Talking with Our Daughters About Sex Presentation High School 650/856-6533 February 22-March 5, 2014 Auckland, New Zealand Training Seminars in Sexuality STNZ & Auckland University Learn more April 4-5, 2014 Phoenix, AZ When Sex Gets Complicated: Infidelity, Technology, & Pornography Arizona Association of Marriage & Family Therapists 650/856-6533 See all Dr. Klein's upcoming appearances You may quote anything herein, with the following attribution:  "Reprinted from Sexual Intelligence™ Marty Klein, Ph.D. (www.SexualIntelligence.org)." For more information: www.MartyKlein.com